Hitchhikers usually have to be picked up, or at least their forms need to be energized by the the target of their infatuation. Remember, what's going on in your head is often projecting out, whether you're aware of that or not. So, I **HIGHLY** recommend you spend a few moments reading Kurt Leland's book The Multidimensional Human. There is a chapter that cuts to the heart of what's usually going on in these neg situations.

I am no expert here, but if nothing's worked so far, it's worth a shot, right?