The Issue of Growing

[IA56]

It is about more than the height in isolation, it's about what it means about the world and my relation to it and the people in it. If I cannot grow, there is nothing of value in life. Looking at other aspects of my life does not make me feel better, it makes me feel worse. Focusing on height helps me focus on one thing that I value, which if I shift, makes a difference. If I lose that focus, all I have is an empty, meaningless crap life. What for?

Dear iamandre,
I can´t help but I got the feeling about you, that you have overseen the metaphor about your issue....grow taller....you have stuck in wrong understanding about what they or your Higher Self are trying to show to you....to grow taller is not a physical thing...it is a metaphor for your growing spiritually, that is what matter in the end...we are not our bodies!!
We are much limitless, don´t you see that??!!
When you can see the depts of what matters then you will stop focusing on the wrong places as body!!

Love
ia

[iamandre]

Dear iamandre, I can´t help but I got the feeling about you, that you have overseen the metaphor about your issue....grow taller....you have stuck in wrong understanding about what they or your Higher Self are trying to show to you....to grow taller is not a physical thing...it is a metaphor for your growing spiritually, that is what matter in the end...we are not our bodies!!

It doesn't matter if I am my body or not, I have to live with it, every single day. But stop to think why you think "growth" means "good", why you think it means "improvement", and what exactly you believe "spiritual growth" is and why you think it's such a great thing. When tumors grow, we try to shrink them. What is the purpose of "spiritual growth"?

When you can see the depts of what matters then you will stop focusing on the wrong places as body!!

Tell me then, what is it that you think matters?

[iamandre]

IA56, Perhaps this will help you understand why these things you say mean nothing to me. Here is your signature and how it relates to this issue, for me: Core Affirmation: I am loved and If I am loved, why can't I be tall just like millions of other men? I am worthy, Worthy of what? Am I worthy of having the body I desire to have and being the man I desire to be? I am safe From what? Because clearly, not from what I most fear. and I am free. So why can't I grow? I am powerfully protected. From what? I am master of my body and ruler of my mind. So why can't I grow?

[IA56]

It doesn't matter if I am my body or not, I have to live with it, every single day. But stop to think why you think "growth" means "good", why you think it means "improvement", and what exactly you believe "spiritual growth" is and why you think it's such a great thing. When tumors grow, we try to shrink them. What is the purpose of "spiritual growth"? Tell me then, what is it that you think matters?

Dear iamandre,
As long as you only see there to be ONE life, this what you have now, if you limit yourself to so short period of existence, then I understand that you can´t understand why you did be born into so short body, but you did choose your parents and therefore also your hight in this life...but if you can´t take responsibillity for your own choices you will never grow and feel content.
You have a deep issue with shame...work on that to free your self from guilt and shame....and you will no longer limit your life to a physical matter as your body. You have much more valuable things in you then a physical body.

Love
ia

[IA56]

IA56, Perhaps this will help you understand why these things you say mean nothing to me. Here is your signature and how it relates to this issue, for me: Core Affirmation: I am loved and If I am loved, why can't I be tall just like millions of other men? I am worthy, Worthy of what? Am I worthy of having the body I desire to have and being the man I desire to be? I am safe From what? Because clearly, not from what I most fear. and I am free. So why can't I grow? I am powerfully protected. From what? I am master of my body and ruler of my mind. So why can't I grow?

You have to see other growing than a physical body....to grow in self love is much more valuable than a tall body.

If you think you only have this life, then I feel sorry for you, why do you waist this life on a matter what has no value as how short or tall your body is.

I understand that it matters to you, but try to see deeper than that...buy high healed shoes then you can feel taller...but it does not make you happier even if you did grow taller....happy feelings come´s from other areas...when you feel that you accept yourself as you are...then you will no longer see as you see things now....all will change off course with time.

Give yourself more credit and stop being so limited in your perspective of existence as you are.

I do not want to make you feel bad, but look higher than your navel, please...

Love
ia

[iamandre]

You have to see other growing than a physical body....to grow in self love is much more valuable than a tall body.

This is a good example of the belittling that I was talking about. Trust me, I have thought about the issue. It's not a random whim.

I do not want to make you feel bad, but look higher than your navel, please...

I cannot reply to this in the way I feel like, because I do not want to get banned from this forum.

[IA56]

This is a good example of the belittling that I was talking about. Trust me, I have thought about the issue. It's not a random whim.




I cannot reply to this in the way I feel like, because I do not want to get banned from this forum.

Dear iamandre,
I was just trying to show you, that it does not matter what anyone say to you, because you have decided to be stuck in your issue about your hight, and you want to feel like a victim...and I was just showing to you, that if you think you find anyone who can let you just feel like a victim and not to try to chock you out of your feeling sorry for you, and you will always find saying as belittling when not go along and let you crawl in self pitty.

You are better than this!!

Love
ia

[iamandre]

and you want to feel like a victim...

I most certainly do not. I want to feel free and truly loved. That is not what I am experiencing in my life and none of the things you are saying are at all helpful in this.

[IA56]

I most certainly do not. I want to feel free and truly loved. That is not what I am experiencing in my life and none of the things you are saying are at all helpful in this.

Dearest iamandre,

Let me give another chocking surprise....If you do not love yourself, how can some one else do that, because you are sending signals about how you feel about yourself, and now your are sending negative wibes and this is why no-one want to come near you, for ask yourself......How do you notice other´s and what make´s you be interested in another person??
And then look at yourself...do you send out feelings about yourself that you even appreaciate yourself?? How can you then expect someone who does not know you to dare to want to know you??
We does signal what we feel about us selves....and 80% of the communication is no vocal...it is signals sent from our energy.
I feel that when you do understand this deeply, your issues are solved...for good.

What make´s a person to glow....self security!!

Love
ia

[iamandre]

Dearest iamandre,

Let me give another chocking surprise....If you do not love yourself, how can some one else do that

I'm not talking about being loved by people, I'm talking about being loved by "God". Being free and truly loved are not separate desires, but two sides of one coin. If God loves me, I am free. If I am free, God loves me. If not, not. The two cannot be separated.