Changing your energy will have an effect on ALL that interact with you. This is especially true of people you interact with on a regular basis. Be warned that there will be some resistance at first whether they be friends or enemies. Change is not a so welcome thing for most people.
The issue here is if you can maintain it long enough to make it 'stick' (after the initial resistance). If you are in an overwhelming situation, your new found state can be eroded back to its old one in an unfortunately short time. Certainly in a less severe situation, this approach can work, especially with friends.
As to whether or not it will affect the interaction between the other people is far from certain. Remember, that for the most part, they are as powerful as you. Though they can't stop you from changing, they can prevent the change from overtaking their interaction with each other.
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A note here for more insight when you have time to contemplate. Situations like this are being actively maintained this way. Constant 'force' is required to keep a cycle like this alive. Otherwise they would naturally dissipate is a shortish time period. This means that most if not all members of the situation are trying to keep it that way. If you are a major player in the circumstance, then your withdrawal may break the reinforcement cycle and allow the situation to change. If you are only a minor player then your withdrawal will not end the cycle.
If your withdrawal is insufficient to resolve the situation, then try to find the motivation of the others involved. This is the most effective thing to address. You do not need to find and change everyone's motivation, just enough so the pattern is too hard to maintain for the remaining people.
Sin nada (Nothing is impossible)
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