Quote Originally Posted by CFTraveler
If the neg is attacking you because of some valid reason (you wanted to suffer this experience as part of your incarnation), the trick would be to find out what possible use to you this is and close the loophole- because even if you chose this, doesn't mean that you always have to suffer this- chances are you have already learned whatever you felt you needed to learn from this and are ready to learn something else, via joy or love, for example.
I missed the IF

So you do or don't believe in this?