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lord.of.the.now
15th October 2017, 01:04 AM
Many of you have expressed appreciation for this topic of spiritual sex and I’ll share one quote from an email: “So rare do you hear people talking about the *truth* of sex, the beautiful, deeper, connections that can be made that go so beyond physical contact . . .” Whatever level of sexuality you choose, that’s great, but I am choosing to write about the realms of sexuality beyond the pure physical act.
I thank you for responding and some comments have inspired me to choose the topic for this post. Even though spiritual sex is not synonymous with orgasms, there was considerable discussion about it; some comments even equated “spiritual sex” with “religion and orgasms.” To date, all I’ve said about the subject is that the Performance Model (our culture’s prevailing view of sex) has orgasm as its goal. Our culture is preoccupied with producing orgasms and sexual dysfunction is most distressing not only because of lowered self esteem but also because orgasms are negatively impacted (not having one at all, or not having it in the perceived “right way”). It’s a huge deal in my field of sex therapy and much has been said about the various dysfunctions, but there is a way to shift out of this paradigm altogether so that pleasure is possible whatever the functioning level. So I’d like to discuss something not well understood in culturally normative views of sex.
There is something I’ll call “conventional” orgasm, which may be what some of you are referencing as you write your comments. Neurochemically, orgasm releases the hormone oxytocin, which promotes good feelings and can lead to mutual comfort, safety, and caring, but not always. For example, if you have an orgasm with a casual encounter, it is unlikely to promote anything but a feeling of release with a strong desire to go home. Many times disconnected or addictive sex can lead to emotional irritability and intense feelings of malaise, self blame or even the blues.
Oxytocin breaks down quickly in the body, so the good feelings dissipate rapidly unless you choose to maintain the powerful relationship bonding that sex can offer. If you remember the exercise called Touching Hearts that I suggested in the second blog, (sadly, some people thought they’d feel silly trying it with their partners) there are great benefits from stimulating emotions that accompany open-heartedness such as appreciation, giving, caring, closeness. These emotions decrease our levels of cortisol, high levels of which are harmful, and increase our levels of the beneficial hormone, DHEA.
However, aside from genitally focused sex, with its relatively rapid release and let down after orgasm, there are two other levels (there are many, but I’m keeping it simple). These are:
Conscious Loving which is the enhancement of partner commitment through loving communion. It includes the experience of the “valley orgasm:” longer lasting and continuing waves of energy moving through the body. It is the heart level of sexuality.
Spiritual Union which is the ecstatic expanded experience producing altered states of consciousness. It encompasses the “cosmic orgasm:” the timeless, boundless state where orgasmic waves move through all the energy centers. Cosmic orgasm can and does occur spontaneously to anyone, but as a practice, it can replenish the life force with release through the crown of the head.
The truth is we are capable of experiencing orgasms in multiple dimensions. Energy centers, called chakras (meaning “spinning wheels” in Sanskrit) are not anatomical structures in the body but are clusters of oscillating energy. Chakras function like electrical transformers, lowering the vibrating rate of life force energy, called Prana in the Vedic system and enabling it to flow through the body. We are actually an organized combination of several energy systems around a unifying field. If we could see the subtle light bodies around us, we would look somewhat like a “luminous egg.” It is the electrical energy generated from the combined subtle systems in and around our bodies. When you received acupuncture, for example, the meridians being stimulated with needles are aspects of these subtle energy systems.
If you interested in reading more about this or even getting some training, some of the esoteric systems of spiritual sexuality available in the West are: Tantra, Kundalini Yoga, Quodoushka, Egyptian, Taoist and Toltec traditions to name a few. These traditions offer wisdom about sexuality that can balance us and benefit our health as well as heighten spiritual awareness. My own research into esoteric sexuality has focused on the Stone and Bronze Age Pre-patriarchal cultures, and my final blog before I go on vacation in early September will be on the ritual of the Sacred Marriage.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/linda-e-savage/spiritual-sex-the-art-of_b_261488.html

lord.of.the.now
15th October 2017, 01:05 AM
https://www.google.co.nz/search?q=orgasms+and+spirituality&oq=orga&aqs=chrome.0.69i59j69i57j69i60j35i39j0l2.980j0j8&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

lord.of.the.now
15th October 2017, 08:04 PM
NOTE:: Orgasms are triggers for multi dimensional awakening awareness

olyris
15th October 2017, 11:28 PM
orgasms are universes... you can actualise them. they (orgasms) contain a bunch of thoughts that are all in the same theme...

for example, my last orgasm-work was one i called "holy reality": self in reality is a sound moment
now i am working on the orgasm, "love is cool"... for obvious reason

old orgasms are of course remembered and integrated into one's cosmic consciousness. they will be perfect - faith if they're not...

DarkChylde
17th October 2017, 01:58 PM
La petite mort. ... La petite mort (French pronunciation: ​[la pətit mɔʁ], the little death) is an expression which means "the brief loss or weakening of consciousness" and in modern usage refers specifically to "the sensation of orgasmas likened to death".

La petite mort - Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_petite_mort)https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_petite_mort

lord.of.the.now
19th October 2017, 10:12 PM
My theory is the ecstasy sensation of orgasms creates connections to oneness and which create awakenings which leads to multi dimension awareness, that's my theory.

Orgasm would make normal people spiritual because awakening content and multi dimensional experience

olyris
20th October 2017, 01:30 AM
ascension is turning your orgasm from purely physical too total spiritual oneness in all love.
i think the way "up" might be forgetting about needing a (real) mate. what is the need for such a drama anyway?.. beyond proofing identity love, which is all their is to sex and spiritually BOTH.

faith takes the high road,
ego plows along the slow road... there is a choice here.

lord.of.the.now
24th December 2017, 09:32 PM
i am trying to master orgasms forum members. I would raise hell of allot of energy i will get the angels to put it back into my energy field.

My spiirtual friend told me that orgasm are so intense that they can trigger kundalini

I will report the spiritual benefits of it when it happens when they day comes present please be patient

olyris
25th December 2017, 02:24 AM
There is more to it than raising energy, you have to KNOW her. then your orgasm is "together," then your orgasm is "alone," then the universe is inside of you. heaven.

lord.of.the.now
25th December 2017, 04:21 AM
olryis i don't have my own partner just yet i am my own self practitioner atm

DarkChylde
25th December 2017, 05:24 AM
please google "Maithuna" , its a proper technique that requires moolabhanda and vijorali mudra and right order of exercise.

it also involves a coccygeal contraction involving the perineum , I mastered it in 2 months.

Crap as hell.

DarkChylde
25th December 2017, 05:36 AM
the practice of :arrow: Maithuna (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maithuna)

olyris
25th December 2017, 12:13 PM
you can know the porn star though... with your soul basically.

olyris
25th December 2017, 12:26 PM
monatomic gold lotion is tre cool for integrating sex energies, we all accumulate them from people in our lives. with the heart open this energy can be experienced during orgasm just by looking at porn. interdimensional spiritual sex is a reality its just a bit of a secret :) for reasons obvious enough. www.multiples.com

olyris
25th December 2017, 12:34 PM
i have turned hugs into losing of virginity. neat thing is, if you do it alone your virginity returns... the girl forgets about it completely... i mean the sex, basically.

DarkChylde
25th December 2017, 12:50 PM
astral or telepathic sex is awesome , you can even tweak out your partner and turn them to be more pliable , in the liminal state one can use the etheric double

overtime you can pretty much do anything with them.Its basically overtake or hijack.


another way to do is to do it in a pact , after you make your first round , a link is made , sometimes it doesn't stand , sometimes its more then palpable.