There's a fallacy contained in the statement "I relax." Because relaxation is not something you put there. It is not brought in. It is not induced. It's in there. However, often we cannot "relax." This is not necessarily because we lack ...
for if you could look at each being in this world with a lover's eyes it would be paradise
I recently read a forum post in another forum where a user professed the belief that suffering was the basis of learning. Maybe I would have agreed many years ago, but this post finds me at a time when I experience the exact opposite. ...