Relation betwen sexual fetishes/deviations and negs

Meanwhile and thanks to your advice in my previous topic question, i finally bought your the psychic defense ebook, BUT even tough there is mention of sexual urges in there, i am not sure if i understood well but there isn't any specific methods for this kind of problem, but one thing is certain the some of the kind of desires i have do seem to be neg related because of their nature, but others i have serious doubts if they are really harmless on a energetic/karmic level or not.

I ask this because i always had some unusual sexual fetishes/deviations, which of course i won't specify here specific details, let's just say that it's different from what most men like, even tough there is many people on the world with the same kind of preferences i have so i am not alone on this. In the past the urges used to be very obsessive because without internet it would be impossible to act upon them with pictures and videos and i suffered a lot because of that, but in the last years after having internet i home i could finally start acting upon them frequently although not in a obsessive way anymore, it's more or less the same frequency as most men do masturbation but i am afraid that this might be feeding negs because these AREN'T normal sexual desires and no one knows for SURE telling me if my specific desires are negative or not, i don't know to whom to ask anymore, and of course, going to sexologists was a mistake i did and that i won't repeat again.

Here's the two main issues :

1 - How exactly do i destroy those fetishes? I am still going to try the method of the skin blemishes marking but let's suppose i am able to get rid of all of those blemished and the sexual fetishes remain unaffected, even in a non-obsessive way, what else can i do besides the usual neg counter measures ? (i ask this because there is many of them i can't do because it would be too obvious to the people that live around me, so i am a bit limited on this) Could the core image method work for dissolving sexual fetishes as well ? If yes tell me if i can use any picture that usually excites me for this purpose or not.

2 - In case i am unable to get rid of these deviations with any of the methods in the book, and since i appear to not have any symptoms of being attacked by succubus or incubus, could this mean they AREN'T related to negs and therefore is SAFE in karmic terms continuing to act upon them in a non-obssessive way? Tell me ANY sexual deviations are always related to negs even if they aren't much obsessive or not related to violence or negative stuff? Is it impossible to have fetishes without having negs involved or without feeding negs? For example if the fetish is about liking a non-sexual body part in women (therefore it's not even related to pornography) and never projecting any negative emotions at all to the target person i have no idea if there is negativity involved on this and neg empowerment. I mostly ask this because if it's true that feeding these desires could ACTUALLY be feeding negs and contributing to the negative glamor i have, i can't be "suppressing" or avoid acting upon these desires forever like priests do, besides i can't believe it's healthy for the body or for the prostate completly eliminating masturbation or denying all sexual desire just because it seems to be feeding negs, because unfortunately this is the only way i have to excite myself to do masturbation, so i am kinda stuck on this and i don't know what to do since having a normal sexual life with a partner like most men is completely impossible because of the unusual desires or even because of the negative glamor i have (which makes it extremely difficult having a girlfriend or a wife or even friends this is why i almost never had friends, except on the internet) therefore i have to do masturbation sometimes as my body feels the need to (if i ignore it, i will get nocturnal emotions anyway).

Oh and to finish one important note i think i never had any of those indications of succubus/incubus attacks fortunately, at least those symptoms you mentioned on the ebook apparently i have none of them, the only problem is that in the past the urges seemed to be a bit stronger than nowadays, but now it's considered a "normal" level of sexual desire for my age (32 years old) the problem is me being in constant doubt if what i am doing is empowering negs or not, even considering that what i like isn't illegal and there isn't any negative emotions projected to the target women on the pictures, and it's not even about erotic/porn stuff, it's all non-nude material and it's not considered offensive by most people.

As this is messing up your life and life enjoyment, in that you cannot have friends or a partner, I think you should take a broader approach to this matter. The fetish is obviously just one part of a broad spectrum disorder.

To this end, I recommend regular salt baths, fumigations, and banishments, and to sleep electrically 'grounded'.

As for a specific treatment, I recommend affirmations, commands, and banishments, be done whenever this fetish surfaces in your mind as a fantasy.

For example...whenever a thought of this fetish enters your mind, immediately counter it with an affirmation that expresses your ideal state of mind and sexual attractions. Do not state the fetish in your affirmations, but state your ideal as if it were already so.

Also, do a banishment whenever fetish related thoughts arise. Do this with full hand signing and spoken voice, where possible. Do this silently where it is not appropriate...say in front of other people. See the end of my book for instructions on how to banish.

Yes, use the core image work on this.

There is no quick fix for something like this. It is a process. Try everything and focus more on what has an effect.

I also suggest you find a good psychologist to help you work through all this.

robert

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For example...whenever a thought of this fetish enters your mind, immediately counter it with an affirmation that expresses your ideal state of mind and sexual attractions. Do not state the fetish in your affirmations, but state your ideal as if it were already so.

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Wait a minute there is a big problem with this, i never had normal sexual desire all my life, ever since i started having sexual desired at 12 years old it already started with a single fetish, then when the years passed slowly more fetishes started appearing, and nowadays there is about 5-6 different ones, so what you mean exactly by "ideal state of mind and sexual attractions" ? You mean doing affirmations like this : "I have normal sexual desires" ? Is this enought? It's kinda the only suggestion that cames to my mind. Oh and by the way i am already using the core affirmations from the book in a daily basis now, several times a day i REALLY hope that can help with the glamor and fetishes too because it's by far the easiest of the counter measures of the book.

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There is no quick fix for something like this. It is a process. Try everything and focus more on what has an effect.

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Yes but WAIT, meanwhile i do this "treatment", is it healthy to my body do suddently abruptly stop feeding all sexual desire arousal and masturbation for weeks and months, considering i have had masturbation 1-2 times a week in the last years? This will be a major change on my life as you can imagine this is why i have to be sure about this, also i heard about men getting prostate cancer or other problems with the prostate because of lack of sexual activity for very long periods of time (not sure if this is true or not or if i interpretated that correctly), but completly "turning off" my sexual life like this won't cause problems for the body and prostate? (yeah because i still have that aversion i always had since birth for any normal sexual desire so i can't do masturbation anymore) Unless that using these methods slowly the "normal" sexual desire other men have will naturally awaken on me and the current aversion goes away and therefore it's completly safe for now to avoid feeding the sexual desire until the fetishes are gone, but that might take weeks and months, if not years.

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I also suggest you find a good psychologist to help you work through all this.

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Believe me i already did that about 10 years ago when i first had the sexual desires, and let me tell you it was both a waste of time and also a mistake, one of them, a sexologist prescrived drugs to supress the sexual desire, with nasty sideeffects like frequent wet dreams, and even 1 case of epileptic attack as sideeffect of the medication. So i don't trust "professional" help like this anymore, also because most advices they did in a general way was simply try to get more friends and have a more social life like all other people of my age, which is absolutly out of the question with the negative glamor i have which causes me to be frequently bullying or misunderstod and misundertood, so the more alone i am, the better for now.

I hope this time all doubts get solved, it's specially about the kind of affirmations to use with the fetishes, and if it's healthy and safe to completly stop masturbation abruptly (since all sexual desire is just about fetishes i can't do masturbation without feeding fetishes) like this, i hope you understand i have to be absolutely sure about this and making sure i don't do any mistake about this.

Use that affirmation 'I have normal sexual desires' along with the core affirmation. Also add one 'I have many good friends' and 'people like me'...and similar to project your intention to live a life free of the negative glamor.

Do frequent banishments, daily, and use the other countermeasures like salt baths, sleeping earthed, fumigations, etc.

Learn the LBRP.

Your fetishes are linked with the negative glamor, eg, neg related. This has likely been going on all your life, and I suspect a hereditary attachment is involved...something coming down through your parents from your ancestors.

So in this sense, working to remove the glamor will in turn help you let go of the fetishes.

robert

Ok thank you so much THIS time i think i got more clarified, oh by the way by LBRP you mean, the simplified version of the LBRP in the "clearing spaces" section right? That one yeah i can do in my bedroom, i hope that is enought because the full version i seen on the wikipedia article is indeed definetly too complex and for what i have read i have TONS of doubts about it and besides it's impossible to do it at my home because of me living with my mother which is very skeptic about things like this. Anyway for now you've help a lot already, for the moment this is enough just confirm what i asked now and that's all :D And sorry for bothering you with all this...

Do the simple version for now, but I recommend you learn the full version of the LBRP 'lesser banishment ritual of pentagram'.

The more often you do banishments, the less you will be influenced by negative spirit beings. This applies to 'all' types of neg related problems.

Robert