Re: Kundalini Energy or NEGS
Dear kalki,
Robert has been preparing for workshops. The workshop in Montana is rather remote and internet access is difficult to say the least so answering posts is not possible.
The standard questions to ask oneself are as follows: Do you experience thoughts that are unhealthy mentally or emotionally? Do you get impulses to do things that are not compassionate or are unhealthy to others or self? Do you get compulsions that are not good for those around you? Do you get a slimmy, heavy, disruptive or oversexed feeling around you? Negs like control and can turn people into control freaks, conversely they can cause disharmony, arguing, sexuality that does not make one feel healthy, self harm, insanity, disruptions that fuel fear, tension, and hatred. The varieties are endless but always negative.
There are people out there who are very energetically active. It sounds like the person you are connected to is like this. Just remember that energy is not a sign of spirituality. It is a sign of years of training and a very strong mind. What one does with that mind is another question. We would like to think there are lots of nice neat rules out there governing things. But if that were true we would not have wars or messes. People are free agents and what they do with there abilities is up to them. Best to carefully watch someones character a lot over a long period and get to know them before hooking up with them energetically. If you believe in distance healing then you understand how much we can affect each other energetically. If a healer ever got upset or angry towards a specific person and brooded on that person it could be incredibly damaging. It is so important to have self control and not allow life or people to ruffle you too much. Emotion is beautiful but only when it avoids the pitfalls and trenches that drowned us in useless epic dramas. Survey the character of the one you are connected with and really get to know them at their best and worst. How do they behave when someone has done something unfair or unkind towards them? Do they try to look at things in the most positive possible light or do they brood? This is the difference that is good to look for.
Best Wishes,
Violetsky