Re: Is Detecting Deception Through OBE Possible?
Originally Posted by
berserker
This person wants my forgiveness and wants me to re-invest my life back into her.
You can forgive without having to renew a relationship.
Forgiveness is for YOU, and it's very healing. It's a letting go of hurt, resentment, grudges, etc., thus freeing you from having the burden of them. However, just because you choose to forgive someone, that doesn't mean you have to follow it up with getting back together.
Originally Posted by
berserker
I am trying to forgive
Forgiveness is really pretty much a do-or-do-not thing. You decide to forgive someone and you do it. You put it down. Sometimes, we go back and pick up whatever it was and carry it around again, sure, but forgiveness is a lot simpler than it appears. I used to struggle with it, too, until I figured out it's really about me, not them.
Originally Posted by
berserker
build back trust
That's a different topic, entirely. Trust takes time to build, and once broken, it may or may not ever be rebuilt, but trust is about relationship, and it has to be earned. Well, it doesn't HAVE to be. You can willingly give your trust over to anyone and anything, but it's not something most people do, and with good reason.
Originally Posted by
berserker
I have read that projecting back in time is possible so therefore it should be possible to target a time period and witness if I am being deceived or not? Or visit the Akashic records and try to find out there?
You could possibly go that route, but what does it say about your relationship? And do you really want to pursue a relationship based on absolute lack of trust so deep that you feel the need to resort to deep mysticism in order to feel reassured?
These are just some thoughts of mine, as a veteran of many betrayals (on my part as well as other peoples') and having had to learn how to forgive some very profound things.
May the light surround you, may you be blessed. May the light surround us, may we be blessed. May love and light surround us all, and may we all be healed and blessed. And so it is, and so it shall be, now and ever after.
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