This lesson I was shown last night in my dream is the hardest one for me to learn....to not to intervene..to let others have there experiences even it is going to hurt them.....

The dream was like this.....I was looking at a man who had 3 bees circulating around his head....he is trying to get them go away....I stand up and go to help him...I start to wave my hands to get them to go away....and suddenly I feel a hand grabbing my neck...and very firmly letting me know to stop...and let him handle the situation by himself.....

This is so hard....how can I learn this?? to stop helping??

I do now understand that it is not helping if I am not letting people have very valuable lessons to learn...but how can I know what is what...when to help and when to let go??
I suppose next lesson is to see the difference to know when to act and when to watch.