In last night dream I was invited to visit my ex father in law...I had my red highheals on me...ex father in law had bean sick and away for a long time...I hardly recognized him he had lost weight and looked so much younger...(he died 1994 ...so if I was visiting him in the afterlife then I understand the change in his appearances)....ex husband did understand something deep...he told me that we are going to buy clotings and new shoes to me...(he was very economical during the marriage)...