In last night Dream I hear a conversation between me and someone else....the other says....why do you not let them do it....I hear me say....but I do not know what they will do...how can I just let them do when not knowing what they are going to do??

It is like this everytime...I am asked to let something happen and it is not explained the content of it....how can/must I decide blindlly?? ..why is not things explained so I can take a decission if to say yes or no??...I have so many times said yes or no to things what is revieled first after my answere....and I have Always felt...why did they not represent both options ...then it will be more fairness for a choose....