Ok , so I got someone with computing/software expertise to look my problem.

I was thinking the problem starts after* i click advanced setting , but that isn't the case ,
Lets look at the original mapper by CFTraveler , please refer to the bold arrows and the enbracketed one
The options on screen two appear as this in order: "Save" ,"Go Advanced" , ("Delete"), "Cancel" :-
mapper.jpg

Now please have a look at the exact screen I get and notice the options : -
problem.jpg
the only options i get are "Save" "Go Advanced" "Cancel" - the delete option just isn't available!

my friend says this is a "user panel enabled feature" , i don't know what that means , could someone please help me fix this .