Let me start by saying that besides this problem, i already did tons of energy work, i first started some years ago, but i never did it on a constant basis, it was more like a few times each x months and always kept quitting because of this problem, but thanks to the responsive areas i am well acquented with the n.e.w. actions.
Everytime i try to do energy work, i have a serious obstacle to motivation in doing energy work and this is keeping me so many times from doing more often : the unresponsive areas.
Everytime i try energy work in the unresponsive areas, i am unable to know if i am ACTUALLY doing any energy work at all or not, and so instintively (it's quite hard to avoid this and i often do this without realizing) i start tensing some muscles in my head unconsciously or doing some intense physical and mental effort on the unresponsive area to try at all costs to feel something sometimes almost 5 minutes on the same area without noticing, and of course this is quite unconfortable and i end up quitting. This is crucial to have motivation to keep doing n.e.w. because i already read about many cases of people wasting months in doing methods that didn't work because they weren't done correctly all that time, and because of this effort i do i NEED to be sure i am doing this correctly because not only this becomes a torture but also the lazyness to do this increases TONS.
Also sometimes when i notice this increased effort i do without realizing, i then try to relax and do energy work without that effort, is JUST like i am doing nothing at all, of course this is VERY frustating, what garantees me that i am working on this hard enought to make the body parts start responding in medium term ? Because when i feel nothing, it's just like when i am not doing energy work at all, this is a considerable mental barrier i think.
To all of you that also had trouble feeling totally unresponsive areas at the early stages of energy work, i need to know, how do i know i am ACTUALLY doing energy work in a way that it's contributing to the development of the energy pathways?? I know i might be trying too hard but the problem is finding the balance between trying too hard and not doing anything at all, without having indications... I remember reading in the n.e.w. manual something about this, and that we should just keep working on them even if we don't feel anything since they will later start responding, but unfortunately this isn't enough for my confidence (specially because i once, a few years ago,i did the FULL n.e.w. energy works in both arms and legs for 3 weeks, during 2 hours everyday, and the responsiveness of the body haven't changed a bit after all that time), i actually need to hear some feedback from those that alreayd had the same problem than me and how they did until the unresponsive parts start responding...
Oh wait i remember another tip from the manual, when having difficulty feeling unresponsive areas all we have to do is to physically touch the unresponsive area, and then try to focus on that feeling alone to help, but here's the "catch" : let's suppose i do like this EVERYTIME time, the sensitivity of the pathways will STILL get developed and get responsive on their own even if i use this helping method ? I mean, is it possible to keep using this helping method until they respond on their own without needing to touch them, or i still have to work frequently on them without this touching to get them to respond ?
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