I see. So it's not Kundalini per se but just development. I don't know what to tell you, I'm lucky in that my hubby, although not an 'experiencer', meditates and 'gets' me, and that is hugely comforting.

The only 'advice' I have would be, try to find a spiritual development group or a Unity church nearby your area, and eventually you may find people you can talk to about this, if you're in the 'right' place at the 'right' time.
I usually don't like to give this advice because it feels like I'm 'evangelizing' and I'm not- even though their metaphysics is in a different place than mine, there was a time where the ability to sit in a group and discuss these things was something that I needed, and I'm glad it was there for me when I needed it.