Re: Can you help me understand this .....
Some people are just naturally draining, even if they seem pleasant and helpful. I don't understand the mechanism (have never tried to). As near as I can tell, it's that some people put their energy outward (probably the majority) and some draw energy inward. If you're not prepared for that, and you're in the company of someone who drains energy, well...
I don't think in most cases it's intentional or even conscious. Sometimes it's learned behaviour, but that's usually people who deliberately provoke a reaction in others (anger, annoyance, laughter, pity, etc. etc.), and even then they may not understand what they're actually doing.
I really do suggest that you practice shielding all the time, though. It sounds like you're vulnerable, and you never know when you're going to encounter someone who drains you for whatever reason. Keeping shielding in place becomes second nature once you've been deliberately doing it for a while, and it can make your life much more comfortable, providing a kind of cushioning from the pulls and pushes and currents of energy that are always happening all around us as energy takes on different shapes and directions.
May the light surround you, may you be blessed. May the light surround us, may we be blessed. May love and light surround us all, and may we all be healed and blessed. And so it is, and so it shall be, now and ever after.
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