I was having drinks with some friends yesterday and I met a man who approached us as he knew one of us and wanted to say hello. He is an art therapist who works with autistic/special needs people, he sat and talked with us for a while.

And this guy just...it was like he was hypnotising. He was really calming and soothing, just to be with. He was really warm to be with. It was like I could feel calming drugs radiating from him to me making me feel high. And he was saying really nice things, comforting a friend who was a bit down.

I just want to know, how does someone build up this energy. How can I be like him, and how can I have people like him in my life.