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    Trauma and mysticism

    I've been a mystic pretty much all my life. My first big mystical experience happened when I was five (the standard, well-documented kind of "golden-white light that is the Presence of God" thing). I've continued to have mystical and supernatural and metaphysical type experiences ever since, and I still do.

    I also had a particularly stressful childhood. Without going into details, my family was highly dysfunctional in myriad ways, and it affected me deeply and profoundly. I spent many years being extremely messed up, to put it mildly.

    I've noticed that a lot of people who post here reporting mystical/metaphysical experiences have similarly stressful childhood backgrounds. Have commented on this before, actually.

    I have a daughter who is now thirteen, and she is an absolute mini-me. She looks like me, she thinks like me, she's prone to stress the same way I am, her sense of humour is exactly like mine, all of it. She is a kind of manifestation of a wish (I wanted to get an idea how I might have turned out if I had not had complete f**kwits for parents). When she was young, she had a number of experiences that looked very like clairvoyance to me, and she had dreams that struck me as mystical, but as she's gotten older, she's become less and less mystical. She told me the other day she's an agnostic, in the sense that the Divine cannot be known by conventional means (though she's open to the idea that people can experience the Divine in subjective ways). She also has not, apparently, started to have precognitive dreams, which is something that happens commonly in my family when you hit puberty. She has also had a reasonably stable upbringing by parents who are imperfect but not complete f**kwits. She is prone to stress, but she doesn't have a stress disorder (which is something with which I still struggle; my limbic system is pretty fragile). She also seems to have the capacity for the mystical, but little to no experience of it (nor does she seek that, though one day she might).

    I have other observations that are similar (i.e., people with abusive or otherwise messed up childhoods being more likely to develop mystical abilities), but I won't go into all of them. What I'm thinking, and possibly seeing, is that trauma is, among other things, a facilitator of mysticism. I'm not sure that all mystics come from a traumatic background (I don't have any reason to think that's true, and if we look at the stories of the Buddha, he was raised a pampered prince!), but it seems that for some, trauma causes us to retreat into ourselves in ways that open us up to the mystical, and, for some of us, the Divine. I am positive that trauma does not always lead to mysticism or divine experience (more often, it seems to lead to personal dysfunction, addiction, criminal activities, and other such self-destructive habits), but based on my very small sample and observations I've made of the mystically-inclined, I think it can be said that trauma can and does lead us to mystical experience, or, at least, it opens us up to it.

    At the moment I'm just mulling this over, and I'm not proclaiming any special knowledge or epiphanies or anything. I'm just observing this, and I'm wondering if someone might have some input or thoughts on the matter. Could make an interesting discussion.
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    The term "dark night of the soul" comes to my mind. It is an extreme depressive state, normally or often caused or preceded by a traumatic event.

    I remember having read E. Tolle also had this phase and became a mystic and spiritual teacher only after he 'survived' it.

    Here's one of his descriptions:

    https://www.eckharttolle.com/newsletter/october-2011

    I remember as a bullied child (I was constantly harassed in school) I was once walking through a weather storm, not caring too much for getting soaked wet. I was desperate and asking God to take me out of this life with a thunderbolt from above. Or actually I was asking the weather god "Petrus" for it.


    If I really wanted to die I cannot tell anymore but I was pretty destroyed back then and life had no meaning. I remember that after being home and crying I felt better somehow. Something came to me that had made me stronger. That does not mean that the bullying stopped because I still was not out of school, but I had some strength to endure it and carry on and to kind of 'sit it out' with patience. I knew school would end one day. And then it got better. Thank goodness my parents or family never were f ... wits.


    I did not turn into a perfect mystic back then, but I knew I had felt sth more out-of-this-world in me. I was metaphysically inclined anyway since childhood. Always talking to the invisible help from elsewhere rather than only to myself.
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    Oh, I've done the dark night of the soul (and it lasted for years). I believe it was a term first used by Juan de la Cruz, but I oculd be wrong on that one. He certainly did use it in his classic mystical writings, even if he didn't coin the phrase (and he would have coined it in Spanish, anyway).
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    Quote Originally Posted by ButterflyWoman View Post
    Oh, I've done the dark night of the soul (and it lasted for years). I believe it was a term first used by Juan de la Cruz, but I oculd be wrong on that one. He certainly did use it in his classic mystical writings, even if he didn't coin the phrase (and he would have coined it in Spanish, anyway).
    La noche oscura del alma.

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    I guess what I think I'm seeing is that having a crappy childhood can make you a mystic. But I'm not sure that's the case. It's certainly not always the case (usually, it just messes you up for life). I have never seen much purpose for the suffering I endured from before I was born (please, no dogma about "choosing it before I was born", I've been down that road and found it to be unsatisying and mostly irrelevant, though I know it works for some people, as dogma generally does), and I have resented it most of my life. I've come to peace with it now, for the most part, because it just was what it was and it's part of the back story for this "me" creation, and that's fine. It's just lately I'm seeing that maybe there was something more to it (though I'm not at all convinced that there's any great "plan" or "scheme" or anything, and I most definitely do not ascribe to the idea of predestination).

    I dunno. Maybe it's just that a lot of people have a dysfunctional childhood, and therefore lots of people here do. I might be grasping at straws to try to find some meaning in that which is meaningless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ButterflyWoman View Post
    I guess what I think I'm seeing is that having a crappy childhood can make you a mystic. But I'm not sure that's the case. It's certainly not always the case (usually, it just messes you up for life). I have never seen much purpose for the suffering I endured from before I was born (please, no dogma about "choosing it before I was born", I've been down that road and found it to be unsatisying and mostly irrelevant, though I know it works for some people, as dogma generally does), and I have resented it most of my life. I've come to peace with it now, for the most part, because it just was what it was and it's part of the back story for this "me" creation, and that's fine. It's just lately I'm seeing that maybe there was something more to it (though I'm not at all convinced that there's any great "plan" or "scheme" or anything, and I most definitely do not ascribe to the idea of predestination).

    I dunno. Maybe it's just that a lot of people have a dysfunctional childhood, and therefore lots of people here do. I might be grasping at straws to try to find some meaning in that which is meaningless.
    Nothing is meaningless, even that I have not words to tell you in the writing moment, but I know in time I will have.
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    I was raised badly too. And I don't know if I could be legitimately identified as a mystic. But - at this point in my life I think that my relationship with Spirit has been initiated by a deep abiding innocent desire for real love and what is right and good. And -that- was and is deeply informed by the felt absence of same. And - at this point in my life I label the source of that desire as Soul experience. I feel and intuit that if our Soul knows better then we are refined by suffering. If a Soul does not know better - it is not experienced enough yet.

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    Personally the people I've known with a psychic side who had bad childhoods, it has not helped them, but left them lost and open to neg influence, and, in my opinion held back their "life development" not quickened it. I don't believe horrible things are a boon to becoming spiritual. I think the perfect conditions for becoming spiritual are a balance of challenge/hardship and basic safety. I think too little hardship and people grow arrogant and self satisfied, too much and people break and become lost in despair. To grow people need the perfect balance. IMO.

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    I have had an epiphany about this. Essentially, nothing has meaning or purpose unless we give it meaning and purpose, and then it does. If I want to believe that my crappy childhood somehow enhanced something, well, I can (I don't, but I can if I want to), and then, it will be exactly that. Essentially, the only meaning anything has is that which we give it. This may sound extremely bleak, but I'm finding it to be powerfully liberating, and the realisation is causing a domino effect with some other very deeply held attachments that clearly needed to go.

    I've kind of known this about belief/perception for a long time, but now I'm really experiencing it, and while once it would have freaked me out, now I'm just enjoying observing my reality dissolve in interesting ways.

    I don't know if anyone but a handful of people will have any clue what I'm talking about, but that's okay. I just needed to push through this, through that last vestige of "But there MUST be meaning!" No, there doesn't have to be meaning. Holding to meaning, clinging to the belief that everything has to have some sort of purpose is potentially very limiting.
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