Actually, I have a runaway imagination too. It sucks, doesn't it?
I have also been teased/bullied/etc and have self-esteem and self-confidence problems.
I think the problem is psychological in nature and is connected to your self-confidence, like mine is. It sounds like it may be the product of second-guessing yourself and the fear of failure. Do you have fear or anxiety problems? That can also cause a lot of what you are experiencing. The fear of losing control (I have a huge problem with that), the fear of success due to low self-esteem, or feeling like you don't deserve good things can be a factor, too.
Probably your subconscious/unconscious fears and feelings are coming out as you are connecting more with them due to your heightened awareness. Perhaps you fear what you are experiencing on some level or percieve danger; perhaps you are having a hard time adjusting to a new reality or fear the unknown and, once again, losing control. Perhaps you fear judgement or criticism for what you are doing. Perhaps you are criticzing yourself internally.
It is important to know these feelings/fears are not your fault, and you are not a failure. You are dealing with a lot of pain/scars and heightening your awareness at the same time, so this is normal, and not something to be ashamed of. Your pain is not your fault, and you are not bad because of it. It is just pain and the cure for that is loving support.
My advice to you is if it causes you too much pain, leave it alone for now and seek out healing first; if not, seek out healing anyway. Spiritual things are great for this, but you also need people and to do things that feed your spirit and give you happiness. No matter what other people think. Be good to yourself and you will have an easier time, and an easier time of healing.
It is also important to remember that sometimes what you imagine is not real, as well, it is just imagination; learn to tell the difference. This will spare you needless fear and needless pain.
You do not deserve any more pain... and I empathize highly because I am going through a lot of the same. It is not the end, just a bump in the road; don't give up, think positively, affirm yourself, baby yourself, be good to yourself, and learn when to push beyond your percieved limits and know your actual limits. It is not an easy road to healing, but I'll bet there are people willing to be there for you; seek them out, let them help you and love you, and you will be fine!
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