Re: Why can't I love?
Originally Posted by
embrace
It's the person who had betrayed you lost something.
Then there's another step into "overview", which is that it's only your definitions and beliefs that make whatever that person did a "betrayal". In other words, it's contextual. Remove the context, no more betrayal.
Betrayal is based in the idea of having rules and expectations about how someone else is supposed to act. When and if they don't act that way, it may be interpreted as anything from mildly annoying through the deepest of betrayals. Remove the idea that there are rules that someone else has to follow and you remove most of that.
I'm not suggesting that we shouldn't have expectations for relationships, by the way. I'm just looking at it from a somewhat more meta perspective. "Betrayal" is very much in the context of beliefs. Loosen those beliefs, ease those expectations, betrayal is not so much of an issue....
This is, of course, true of everything, not just relationships.
May the light surround you, may you be blessed. May the light surround us, may we be blessed. May love and light surround us all, and may we all be healed and blessed. And so it is, and so it shall be, now and ever after.
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