a thought provoking idea

[Mishell]

I think "love" in unconditional love is more closely related to compassion than to how I feel about hamburgers.

[Serenity]

I think you're confusing 'being happy with' with loving someone. I'd still love my son even if he turned into a serial killer, but I wouldn't be happy with his choice of careers. I think our society confuses things that are not love with love, like 'being happy with', or sex, as we already know. But love is about wanting the best for someone else, regardless on the emotional outcome on us. If it depends on the outcome, it ain't love. (IMO )

Well if that's the definition, then I don't need to change to love unconditionally, as I already do.

To love more people unconditionally, I think there are things in my past I would need to go back over and accept. A sort of Final Confession to myself.