Hi All,

My ex-boyfriend was recently diagnosed with squamous cell cancer in a mass in his neck. He has a 95% chance of survival, so the outlook is good. He has started chemotherapy and I just want him to be healed as quickly as possible with minimal suffering.

The thing about this case is his brother died of cancer of the lymph nodes. Dave (the ex) tried to take the cancer from him before he died. I guess he got it alright, but did not get rid of it properly? I don't know, my point is I think he got it from trying to perform a selfless act and it doesn't seem right he should suffer.

Thanks for your good thoughts. I have a picture of him, but I can't get in touch with him to request permission to share it. His name is Dave McNabb and he lives in San Diego.