Re: Need some help/advice please
Originally Posted by
geminitwin
4 months ago my twin sister passed away. We were fraternal twins but we were very close.
I had two dreams where I was aware in the dream that she was dead. The first time was about a week after her funeral. And then once more maybe a month later. Each time I wished I could talk to her and then dreamed where I knew she was dead, and was surprised to see her. In each dream we always exchange a few words, we hug (which feels very real after I woke up), and usually I wake up. The first time since it was so close to her death, I asked her if I'm next, and she laughed and said, not yet, when I asked her were she sleeps she answered with at the cemetery and when I asked her if she traveled anywhere she said she's been busy.
I was very close to my grandmother, and when she died, she turned up in my dreams very regularly for a while. In them, I would say things like, "What are you doing here? I thought you were dead?" and she'd laugh at me. We never had a conversation about anything, but I always woke feeling that she'd really been to visit me.
As CFT noted, this kind of experience is quite common.
Originally Posted by
geminitwin
So then I dream that I woke up and I'm going to watch the superbowl..... and my sister is here in my house and we're going to watch it together, as if nothing happened. Although it feels kind of weird... it feels like although I'm awake I'm actually still sleeping, sort of like stuck almost between two "states" or like when a movie frames skip.. so I go back to bed (or wake up).. and then it feels like I really wake up (although I'm not sure if I did actually really wake up). And I think to myself, lets test what this woman was saying. So in the dream I think to myself.. I really want to talk to my sister, and I say her name and I love you, and she responds I love you too. Although I don't actually see her, it's as if I'm talking to a ghost. So then I start to ask her something but she says, you can't talk very long, but I want you to say hi to someone else. And as if I know, I say Hi dad... and when I do, I hear my sister giggle... and then I wake up (in my dream) and then I wake up for real. But when I woke up, I felt kind of tired, like I I had JUST lied down.
So I was a little freaked out, but it was kind of nice. It felt like I just talked to my twin.
It is nice. She's still with you, that's very special.
Originally Posted by
geminitwin
The woman told me not to think anything evil or it can manifest
Mmm. That's good advice. Learning to control and manage your thoughts is valuable on many levels, including things that manifest into your life experience.
Originally Posted by
geminitwin
I would like to continue having dreams about my sister, especially since it feels like we're actually meeting.
My concern is.. is any of this dangerous... and if I maybe perhaps should go see a psychologist or psychiatrist if this is not normal.
It's entirely normal. Even having nightmares is fairly normal (they're generally symbols of inner turmoil; in the one you described, you ended up triumphing, though, so that's a good sign). You only need to start to worry if it affects your sleep or it persists in intrusive ways when you're awake.
Originally Posted by
geminitwin
I thought maybe my negative thoughts killed him
Not likely. If people could actually kill others with their thoughts, there'd be nobody on the planet. It sounds like you had an actual premonition, not only about your father, but also your sister. That's not terribly uncommon, either.
May the light surround you, may you be blessed. May the light surround us, may we be blessed. May love and light surround us all, and may we all be healed and blessed. And so it is, and so it shall be, now and ever after.
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