bereavement counseling on the other side. sounds interesting, i never thought of that before. loss goes both ways i guess, is the message.

a friend of our works as a hospice nurse, has for a few decades, she values highly the seeing of folks in a good way through to the other side. recently our friend lost her colleague in hospice work, who was another 'she' working as the bereavement counselor. this colleague had just gone through a rough divorce after a lifetime of marriage. apparently her husband had found a younger model to play house with, and the kids were all growed up and gone. well, next thing they know, this colleague doesnt show up for work for a coupla days. checking on her, they find her in her home having ended her life. apparently some folks and colleagues forgot to counsel the bereaved bereavement counselor. sometimes we imagine because someone has a certain skill that if found in personal need of that skill, they can solve their own problem skillfully. well, that's not a human possibility.

perhaps this dream poses a choice, the kind of choice requiring much educated opinion before it is decided upon. the cat in a curious moment kinda thingy.

be well,

tim