Jim & Girlfriend (19-May-12): Investigation Of The Name, Move-Out And Cities Mentioned

The e-mail correspondence with Steve yielded the following mixed results: 1 clear miss, 1 clear success, 1 inconclusive (but a probable hit if compared to other recent hints from dreams). So it's a draw with 1,5:1,5 or even a 2:1 victory .

1 miss:
The real name did not fit. It's not even similar to the first name I received, which rules out any "astral mishearing". Steve does not know her last name, however. So there is still a possibility due to a possible phonetic identity with a German last name. But I don't know her last name and neither does Steve (so far). His contact is not too close with Jim anymore.

1 hit:
Steve informed me that Jim had to move out of his current flat together with his girlfriend. They now found a new one in the same city. The reason: Their landlords needed the appartment for their own personal use, so they were forced legally to move out.
And now the move-out date and it's really awesome: 1. May 2012 !!!

I had no way of knowing about this. It's a hit. They've just moved out, in a way they are still moving out now. Steve also told me that they still are very busy with the new appartment, e.g. there's still the endless coming and going of craftsmen for renovations going on right now.
Maybe I misinterpreted the 'argument' with his girlfriend. The witnessed negativity, rush and tension of the situation outside the house was thus rather due to: 1) the stressful move and all the hassle that usually goes with it 2) the unwanted, forced move-out, or 3) both.

1 near-miss shot / inconclusive:

The city is wrong too. And still, there are some surprising matches in similarity and a hit from another dream.

First of all, they moved within the same city by the name of "Ko-xxx". The city I was given starts with Frank-xxx. However, the nearby city where Jim works for a company also starts with the same initial syllable Frank-xxx! These initial syllables are not that common in Germany, although one of the best known big cities in Germany (Frankfurt) starts this way. So I got the first syllable from where he works right, although I need to rule out a 'mishearing' of the second part as they are too different.

Secondly, only about 2 weeks ago (probably very near the date of 1 May!) I had a strange dream. My father was driving the car and we were passing a bridge and there was heavy rain. To the left and right of us was a sea. When we were reaching land again, a village in a mountainous area, there was also an aunt of mine and she somehow complained about "a barrier" in or around ... you guess it ... "Ko-xxx". Later and awake, I really wondered why she mentioned this city afterwards as I have no past or present connection to this place at all. It does not mean anything to me and I could not explain it. It's strange though that otherwise there is no hint to Jim in this dream at all. Just an accident?

Btw, there is another city starting with "K-" situated very near "Ko-xxx" and it is the location where a dream character recently invited me to pick him up from, to bring him to .... Frankfurt. It should be noted that one of the arguments between Jim & me many years ago was on carpooling arrangements.


1 re-consideration:

I need to revise this statement from below: "Are we a step further after reconciling and now he seems to telepathically confide in me (again) with his private issues? It almost seems this way. However, I have other goals set and did not at all ask for this!"

Re-thinking this, it seems to me that I initiated a telepathic connection by always driving past his childhood home on my way to or out of town. I then automatically thought of him. Once, I also thought of his girlfriend and even tried to imagine her looks and how it would be to meet and talk to them. So I might have 'invited' it by giving it 'thought power' somehow.