This is not a metaphysical topic as such but using his space to air my daily concerns.
Went to a care home,saw my usual lady ,in her 90 at least. Wonderful, saw that twinkle in her eye and she wanted to feel my hands that she said were cold. At the end she felt them and said they had warmed up. Connection was in that twinkle in the eye. If you look deeply anyone could see it regardless if the patient suffers from dementia or are just suffering from old age and intolerance to touch.
Got a cuddle and went down stairs.
A new lady of my age is newly appointed and deals with me.
She is stressed,miserable, unwelcoming and abrupt.
Her face told a story and the vibes I was getting from her was " not welcome , I don't have time to deal with you, I have more important things to deal with. This job is too much for me. .....
I wanted to go out and buy her some flowers that would put a smile on her face and tell her to lighten up and connect with the beautiful people she is surrounded with. .
I didn't , could you imagine me a woman going in with flowers for another woman????
Stressful jobs I am saying will prevent anyone from connecting to anyone.
GET OUT!!!!!!