I'm living alone and finding it difficult. Need advice.

[susan]

Sounds like you have friends, places to go, not ready yet for a romantic relationship. Is it the coming home to an empty apartment? Have you thought of maybe going to a cat and dog shelter and giving a home to
A small animal you can care for that needs nurturing. I know an apartment is not ideal for a dog but a small animal that is there waiting for you when you get home. I suppose just knowing something is in the apartment waiting for you returning.
My husband is not an animal lover and he knows I would love a dog but he puts his foot down and I know there is no chance. This is something he is adamant about,so I've decided that if he goes before me I'm replacing him with a dog.

[buzzcock]

Thanks, advice much appreciated. I will check out the couch thing. I'd love a pet, but I live on a 2nd floor and I go for long family visits overnight once a week so I'm not sure I could give the care they need.