ok. well here's what i believe:

knowing is proof of love before during and after something happens. if somebody knows they are being human being and not upset, in time. not only is knowing normal it is also a bit controlling, any fear in others turns into a beautiful or reasonable expression of decency. other isms include perfectionism, materialism, mysticism i have written down plenty. if KNOWING is not going to solve somebody's problems with kundalini, frankly i think that person is a vege.

cheers, o