In last night dream I had invited a single mom with 2 children to stay at my place for a while....I asked her if she has money so she will cope....I knew she had only part time work...yes she said...I get allowance...I noticed that she had used the coffeepot still having the coffee grounds in it...I said...oh I see you have done coffee....that´s good....and I started to wash the pot....I had self made jam in jars...so I told her if she need some jam she can take what she finds suit her....