Re: What if you went back and changed it all?
It was a scenario I thought about many times throughout my life, and I'm sure others have too... What would it be like to do it all over again, what would you change, how would you handle it? Would you act as a prophet and prevent catastrophies, or would you hide everything you know and cheat the system? Would you be able to keep the same life while only avoiding the negative aspects? Would you be able to meet all the people that you met by chance again? Would you end up being bumped up a few years in school because you already have the knowledge of an adult?
This is one of my recurring fantasies. How odd that others should fantasize about such things.
I always have a component where I advise my parents about where their attitudes and false beliefs will lead them. I wonder if they'd listen.
There's things I'd put up with again just long enough to form relationships with certain people and there's things I'd certainly skip having learnt everything I care to learn from those experiences.
I'd spend early childhood reading everything I could and hit the game show circuit at 18. (I've got really quick reflexes. ) Then I'd meet my husband again. I'd be really worried about the odds of having my exact children again. I'd try to have a couple more too because I'd have all that extra dough.
Would I worry about changing other people's timelines because I changed my own? No.
As in your dream, I always have someone else like me in the fantasy so I wouldn't feel totally alone.
There was a movie with Kathlene Turner along these lines back in the 80s (Peggy-Sue Got married)
"A dream is a question, not an answer."
(Therapist and dreamworker Strephon Kaplan
Williams)
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