Yes. I would only venture that "learning the hard way" as psychics put it, does do something for the universe quite unlike ordinary people. It makes people think of themselves. I do believe that is what a "lost soul" wants - some more compatibility. Not much, but enough human sense in their lives to undo the lonely issues. Therapists ask you to trust white light, more or less. I say that hard way wills diamond silver etc light into minds around it. Nobody is here without a very good reason.